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Demi Moore's Downward Spiral Reportedly Plagued by Obsessions With Weight and Youth

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While Demi Moore is undergoing treatment at an undisclosed location, more details of the night she was rushed to the hospital have surfaced, and the latest issue of People magazine reports on a life that seemed to be spiraling out of control.

Kate Coyne, People's assistant managing editor, shared some of the details this morning on "Good Morning America."

"Demi was so frail and so gaunt that some of the paramedics who arrived actually thought that she was a cancer patient who was in the final stages of treatment," Coyne told "GMA"'s Paula Faris.

Moore was rushed to the hospital Monday night after a 911 call was placed from her home saying she had "smoked something" and was "shaking," "semi-conscious" and "burning up."  While some have speculated Moore abused the drug "spice," others have suggested she inhaled nitrous oxide, a popular party drug.

According to People, Moore has been struggling for years and was "tormented by insecurities about her body and age."

People also reported that she used prescription drugs to "curb her appetite," and that these insecurities became more of an issue after her split with "Two and a Half Men" star Ashton Kutcher.  Moore and Kutcher faced a very public split after multiple allegations surfaced of Kutcher cheating.

Moore told Harper's Bazaar magazine, " 'What scares me is that I'm going to ultimately find out at the end of my life that I'm really not lovable, that I'm not worthy of being loved. That there's something fundamentally wrong with me."

She also told Harper's Bazaar she struggled with her body image and acceptance of herself.

"The weight loss that Demi has had is indicative of a much bigger problem - problems involving drugs, reckless behavior and, really, a refusal to eat," Coyne said. "She has been so obsessed with staying young and, to her, staying young means staying thin."

Days before she went to the hospital, the 49-year-old Moore was reported partying with her daughter, Rumer Willis, 23, and her 20-year-old friends.

Moore is no stranger to erratic behavior.   In 2010, her wild dancing at a Snoop Dogg concert caused embarrassment to her former husband, Kutcher.

Bruce Willis, Moore's ex-husband and father of her children, "ask[ed] her to get help … but she just wouldn't listen," People reported. 

"Demi is absolutely mortified and feels absolutely humiliated that all of these problems have come to light," Coyne said. "She is a very private person and these sorts of struggles are things that she never wanted the world to know about."

ABC News' Randy Kreider, Paula Faris and Amanda Keegan contributed to this report.

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  • Ferd Burfel  •  3 months ago
    Sad but no surprise. Be it Heather Locklear or Demi Moore if you base your whole self image on youth and beauty you are destined for a fall. Let this be a lesson for you ladies, work on the inner self and follow good role models. Meryl Streep, Betty White, and I am pleased to add Gwyneth Paltrow who just announced she is just fine with her wrinkles.
    • DavidD 3 months ago
      Meryl Streep is beautiful....and yes Demi...she's OLDER than you
    • OfficiousSeeingEyeByatch 3 months ago
      Gwneth can't be bothered to raise her own children, I have no admiration for that one.
    • Marvelous Menu 3 months ago
      No rich person raises their own children.
  • Brahms  •  3 months ago
    In the words of Robert De Niro, "Getting old is a natural thing. And you'd better embrace it because you've got no choice."
    • shelly 3 months ago
      I have respect and love for older people, it is natural, just like life and death.
    • Roger 3 months ago
      Love that!
    • Captain Tripps 3 months ago
      it beats the hell out of the alternative
  • Appreciative  •  3 months ago
    Best of luck to her. Some days I feel lucky to have a 9-5 job and less money than God - real life is a terrific cure for self-obsession.
    • Elizabeth 3 months ago
      Preach.
    • Ricky Ray R 3 months ago
      That was VERY well said... i think the "thumbs down" you got came from CHER!! LOL
  • Brett (aka Rhymnoceros)  •  Pittsburg, California  •  3 months ago
    There comes a point in life when you either choose to embrace who and what you are or fight a desperate, losing battle to stay young. Be like Meryl Streep and grow older gracefully; her natural beauty comes from who she is and the fact that she loves and respects herself. Acknowledge that life is a series of stages. Accepting that is sexier than any plastic surgery or Anorexia.
    • Da_Man 3 months ago
      " Be like Meryl Streep and grow older gracefully; her natural beauty comes from who she is and the fact that she loves and respects herself. "

      Good point. No point fighting Father Time. He eventually beats us all.
    • samuraishonan 3 months ago
      No such thng as beating father time. Time is something we think we know about but do not. Think about a dog. You leave it for two years and it greets you the same as if you just went down to the mail box to pick up the morning paper. Getting older will be fun. Especially with my legs.
    • David 3 months ago
      oh shut the hell up what do any of you know? and a dog left for 2 years looks at you as why did you abandon me you idiot! i know i had to make up with my dog when i came back they are not stupid like you.
  • Frederick  •  3 months ago
    Just grow old gracefully and she won't have these problems. Demi is making a rediculous spectacle of herself.
    • Marvelous Menu 3 months ago
      She's sick. It's not just aging. She's always expressed a competitive, desperate point of view in looking at her life and work. Now she's an addict and anorexic. It looks bad for her.
  • i poop on carpet  •  3 months ago
    Ok, here's how it goes.........you are born young, then you gradually grow old, it happens, just go with the flow.
  • Gorma  •  3 months ago
    When I was 36 I dated a woman that was 22 and I can tell you that it was a lot of work. Of course men like the idea of dating a woman that's younger than them but there is a difference in maturity that comes from life experiences and most peole in their early 20's have completely different priorities than someone in their mid 30's. It was a frustrating experience for me. Now I'm 41 and I have a girlfriend that's 36. We're close enough in age that our priorities, tastes and interests are more compatible and it's a very easy and relatively stree-free relationship. I don't like the physical aspects of getting older but I'm enjoying my 40's more than I did my mid 30's because I've come to accept my age and in some ways where it as a badge of honor. There comes a time in your life where your role is to mentor younger people and set an example so that they don't make the same mistakes that you did in your youth and there is a sense of fulfillment in that. I take care of my health, have a beer every now and then and socialize with friends, stay active by going hiking and playing with my nephew and my nieces and things like that. It's just good to be alive and mature enough to make good decisions and healthy enough to do the things I enjoy. Demi Moore would be much happier if she accepted her age rather than trying to spend the rest of her life living like a college freshman. It's sad and pathetic.
  • Hoosier Daddy  •  Phoenix, Arizona  •  3 months ago
    Demi suffers from too much wealth, too much time on her hands and a narcsisstic vanity that keeps her constantly measuring herself to an image that's an empty suit. It's not what you look like, it's what you do!!! Seems she didn't take a "Lessons Learned" from Michael Jackson's nightmare,
  • Kris  •  Grand Rapids, Michigan  •  3 months ago
    She's a very private person??? The Queen of Twitter? Give me a break.
  • FitzSomerled  •  3 months ago
    Demi is a private person? Please. How do you pretend to be private when you're hitting 50 and out there partying with 20 year olds? Can Hollywood people ever be private? It's against their nature.
  • SteveF  •  3 months ago
    Stress about aging, Give me a break.
    Our ancestors left a cave with a stick and a rock to find food to survive. Meanwhile everything outside of the cave would eat them. That is stress.
    demi has no stress
  • robert g  •  Las Vegas, Nevada  •  3 months ago
    Here's a word of advice, eat a hamburger and fries and grow old gracefully, #$%$ you already have enough money to last your whole life time. what the hell are you stressing for, because you might not get in another movie?Geez
  • carlo  •  Brooklyn, New York  •  3 months ago
    I think this is a problem with a lot of people in there 40's.
    One day you wake up and look in the mirror and scream.
    And this is just normal folk, I can't imagine someone in the spotlight.
    Must be rough!
  • Tom Foolery  •  3 months ago
    Boy those rich people sure do seem to have a lot of problems. Life must be real hard for them. (sarcasm)
  • Beentheredonethat  •  3 months ago
    Like all celebrities, she wasn't getting enough attention. Check her mental status.
  • jr  •  3 months ago
    What Demi needs is real love, maybe a normal guy who is not in showbiz.
  • rpons79  •  3 months ago
    I didn't know whippets were the latest party drug. She really is partying like it's 1989.
  • Joseph  •  3 months ago
    How does that work, you don't eat and you stay young? So people are immortal in Somalia?
  • Barbara Gallegos  •  Sandia Park, New Mexico  •  3 months ago
    Its pretty sad when a person has this kind of issue, getting older isnt as bad as one thinks it's all in her head and she really needs a reality check. What message is she sending her daughter's???
  • Eric  •  3 months ago
    Yo, Demi - no one here gets out alive.
    If we're lucky, we grow old...it happens to all of us.
    Now, go learn to do so with grace.