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Mother of Nearly 14-Pound Baby Said No to Drugs to Avoid C-Section

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The Iowa mother who gave birth to a nearly 14-pound baby with no surgery or medication says she chose to deliver naturally rather than undergo a C-section.

"We just wanted to avoid any unnecessary procedures," Kendall Stewardson said today on "Good Morning America."  "We decided to fight for that [a natural delivery] because we wanted to try to lower my chances of getting a C-section."

When Stewardson and her husband, Joshua, made that pledge ahead of the birth of their second son, little did they know he would break a record.

Asher Stewardson was born last Thursday at Mercy Medical Hospital in Des Moines, Iowa, weighing 13 pounds, 13 ounces, making him the biggest naturally born baby the hospital had ever recorded.

Mercy officials say only a tenth of 1 percent of all newborns weigh more than 11 pounds at birth.

Stewardson delivered Asher after six hours of labor but just six minutes of pushing, all without the aid of an epidural or any other drug.

"We were just really blessed that God enabled my body to be able to do this well," Stewardson said on "GMA," alongside Joshua, Asher and the couple's other son, Judah.

"It went really fast," she said.  "Six hours is something no one can complain about."

When Judah was born 15 months ago, he weighed in at more than 12 pounds, and was also delivered naturally.

"We had decided to research all of our options before we had Judah just to see what would happen to me," Stewardson said.  "We started to research doing it naturally.  There are a lot of options for women out there, but this seemed like the best thing for me and Judah, and then Asher."

Kendall credited her ability to deliver such big babies with so little help to her husband, the "best labor coach in the world."

Joshua himself, however, admitted he wasn't always up to the task.

"I remember I did tell her to just look in my eyes, to relax, during the contractions, with Judah," he said.  "And she looked in my eyes and I started bawling."

"I said, 'Don't look in my eyes anymore, look away, look away,'" he recalled.

While Asher has continued to gain even more weight in the week since his nearly 14-pound birth, his parents said, his mother has been able to quickly drop her pregnancy pounds.

"Apparently when your babies are so big, you don't have any [weight]," Stewardson said on "GMA."  "You don't get to keep it."

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11 comments

  • JMO  •  Mililani Town, Hawaii  •  3 months ago
    SO happy for you all! Congratulations! Welcome Asher! A beautiful event all the way around. And, Kendall, you did a FABULOUS job of being clear on what is right for your family without sounding insensitive to others. I couldn't have done it. You've sent a wonderful message. Also, the looking into each other's eyes part is beautiful, too. Thanks for sharing your story.
  • Marilyn  •  3 months ago
    Michelle said he's too fat
  • James  •  3 months ago
    GREAT story - GREAT couple. Those two boys are in good hands. Nice balance for all the Casey Anthony-type stories we've been reading lately. My wife and I had our twins AT HOME, NATURALLY, with mid-wives, just like generations of human beings have done. The birth business at hospitals is an abomination. Hospitals are for sick people, not pregnant people. Yes, there are times when unforeseen emergencies occur, and couples need to plan for that, but this whole idea that you can't give birth unless a doctor is there to cut the baby out of you is absurd. Good for these people.
    • N A 3 months ago
      You were lucky that everything went well and I congratulate on that. I didn't want to have a C-section but my child turned sideways while I was in labor and couldn't come out. Since the water broke, the labor was irreversible. We were trying everything. If I hadn't been in the hospital and hadn't had a C-section, my baby would have suffocated. Am I a worse parent for undergoing a procedure to save my child's life? That was not the type of emergency you can plan for. C-sections should not be used as an alternative to cut the baby out of women but just because you never experienced difficulties in your own life, it doesn't mean other people are that lucky too. There have always been difficult births and C-section is an ancient procedure that used to result in the mother's death. Many babies and mothers died when there was no safe way to perform a C-section in the past. It's very easy to judge others when you're not in their shoes.
  • Poster  •  3 months ago
    THAT is a good mom.
    • N A 3 months ago
      I don't doubt that but giving birth by C-section or with the use of epidural doesn't make a mom worse, does it?
    • Poster 3 months ago
      NA - vaginal birth, no drugs = best for baby.
    • N A 3 months ago
      Best for the baby but let me tell you that sometimes it's not up to the parent. I'm not going to let your comment bring me down (my child was born by an emergency C-section that saved their life).
  • Just me  •  Doylestown, Pennsylvania  •  3 months ago
    14 lbs of baby? Was this an infant of a diabetic/gestational diabetic mom? Story does not say, but this is NOT a normal weight and very unhealty situation if it is either of the above.
    • Poster 3 months ago
      The first was big too, and there are no indications that there were or are any problems. Some people make big babies, others make smaller. Again, no indications that anyone is unhealthy, so just try to enjoy the cute babies.
    • ChandlerM 3 months ago
      Geesh, I'm not sure what your point is, maybe your phrasing could be better, but thankfully-- gestational diabetes or not--the mother is healthy and so is Baby Asher. I'm sure she didn't plan to have a 14 lb baby to break any records. Sometimes, it's best not to sayanything if what you have to say is not postitive.
  • Eric  •  3 months ago
    That was just stupid, and pointless
  • Sandy  •  3 months ago
    Awesome! Congratulations. You give hope to women everywhere that we don't have to give up on natural births and all the joys that come with it. You're a shero!
  • Trollulah  •  3 months ago
    I like being in labor a long time. I think it feels good.
  • phil  •  Beaverton, Oregon  •  3 months ago
    Good for her! Drug free is the only way to go.. safer for mom and baby.
    • Eric 3 months ago
      really, so which drug is given during delivery that makes it safer to be in pain and distress that the baby senses?
  • DannyG  •  3 months ago
    The father asked the doc to add 23 stitches, he said that crack was big enough to drive a train through...........
  • Zoot  •  3 months ago
    "Only 6 minutes." Really George? Let's see how long 6 minutes would be if you tried to pass 14 pounds of anything!