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Steve Jobs’ Final Words Shared in Sister’s Eulogy

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Steve Jobs’ sister Mona Simpson shared in the eulogy she delivered at the late Apple CEO‘s memorial service that his surprising final words from his deathbed were, “Oh wow, oh wow, oh wow.”

In the eulogy, which was printed in The New York Times on Sunday, Simpson describes Jobs’ final days and moments in a Palo Alto hospital, which was spent surrounded by family as his breathing gradually became shorter.

His breath, she said, “indicated an arduous journey, some steep path, altitude.”

Delivered at the October 16 service for Jobs at Stanford Memorial Church, Simpson, an accomplished novelist, began by describing her initial meeting of her brother for the first time when she was in her mid-20s. Simpson was born in 1957, two years after Jobs, who was given up for adoption as an infant.

“Even as a feminist, my whole life I’d been waiting for a man to love, who could love me. For decades, I’d thought that man would be my father. When I was 25, I met that man and he was my brother,” Simpson said.

Simpson went on to describe her strong relationship with the man now know for the revolutionizing computer world, while explaining Jobs’ work ethic and capacity for love — particularly for his wife Laurene and as a doting father to their three children.

“Steve was like a girl in the amount of time he spent talking about love. Love was his supreme virtue, his god of gods. He tracked and worried about the romantic lives of the people working with him,” she said.

In describing his illness from pancreatic cancer, which Jobs was diagnosed with in October 2003, Simpson paints a picture of Jobs as an enduring, “intensely emotional man.”

She concluded her eulogy by sharing Jobs’ final moments, which were spent staring lovingly at his family, and his final three monosyllabic words as he stared into the distance past their shoulders: OH WOW. OH WOW. OH WOW.

Simpson is currently a professor of English at the University of California, Los Angeles and was a finalist for the PEN/Faulkner Award. She has written five novels, and won the Whiting Prize for her debut, “Anywhere But Here.”

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  • toni l  •  6 months ago
    For Steve Jobs to be "wowed" it must've been something awesome!
    • Teak B Wood 6 months ago
      I think he got a booth at White Castle...........lucky dog........
    • Kevin 6 months ago
      Could have been the last of his nerve endings firing...
    • Ken 6 months ago
      Having had an out of body experience in a 130mph head-on, I can tell you with confidence that he said wow because it is the closest we can muster for expressing the sight. There needs to be another word that comes closer to expressing what he saw - light without shadows, no fear, no pain, peace beyond imagination.
  • Nancy  •  6 months ago
    I think it is beautiful!
    As a nurse I sat at the bed side of dying patients and sometimes they would smile and reach out to something that wasn't seen by anyone but them.
    I truly believe there is a hereafter. What I don 't know, but I would like to think that I will see my loved ones that have passed on again. :)
    • Liberty 6 months ago
      Thank you SO much for sharing that. People on this site are so synical and cold... they don't want to open themselves up for even a glimmer of hope...thank you for sharing and giving us hope of something more and something wonderful to 'reach out to' in the end :)
    • bk 6 months ago
      I saw the white light that my husband was going toward when he passed from pancreatic cancer. My parents, along with other relatives who had already passed, were there in the light waiting for him. It's real.
    • Liberty 6 months ago
      thanks BK - I know, it is real :)
  • Damon  •  Portland, United States  •  6 months ago
    I had a similar brief converation with my Mom before she passed from complications due to leukemia; said she felt like she had "one foot in this world, and one foot in the next...not bad at all".
    • Me 6 months ago
      Thank you for sharing that.
    • Lord Thomas Churchill de ... 6 months ago
      Lovely. You are right.. not bad at all.
    • rog c 6 months ago
      thank you....very encouraging. I cant believe someone gave you a thumbs down.
  • KatherineS  •  Owensboro, United States  •  6 months ago
    My mom, three days before she died of cancer, called me into her room (she was living with me at the time with the assistance of Hospice [God bless them!]. She told me to look up into the corner of the room, almost like she was sharing a secret. She said, "Do you see him?" I looked up, thinking she saw a spider or something. "No...what?" She replied, "Up in the corner of the room--Jesus." I thought, "Oh my, Mom has lost it; she's hallucinating." She said to me, "If you keep Jesus in the corner of your room, there won't be room for anything else. And if you keep Jesus in the corner of your heart, there won't be room for anything else." I started crying. Her last three days were the most difficult and the most beautiful I've ever experienced. Whatever your belief system, faith in something greater than yourself can aid you in the dying process.
    • She 6 months ago
      Clearly, you missed your mother's message to you. Now THAT is true blindness.
    • KatherineS 6 months ago
      Really? Blindness? I am a Christian, and took her words to heart. Don't know what you are thinking.
    • Lynette 6 months ago
      Whomever this 44DD is, that was rude. Katherine, god bless you and your experience with your mother. Sounds like you understand exactly what your mother meant when she was passing into the other side to be with Jesus. She was a witness and thats powerful. I commend you for sharing and God Bless you and your, mother, but it sounds like she already did.
  • phoenix  •  6 months ago
    I had a near death experience during a car accident and I know the joy he was experiencing.
    It was the most peaceful I have ever felt in my entire life thus far and I am in my 60's.
    • Binny 6 months ago
      You are not Steve Jobs, so you cannot know what he was experiencing.
    • Burrito 6 months ago
      Binny, You are not Phoenix, or Steve Jobs, so you cannot know what she was experiencing, compared to Steve,.
    • clozer2thezun 6 months ago
      amen
  • claytonM  •  6 months ago
    One thing is for sure, ... we will never know until it's our turn. Everyone wonders about the transition from life into death. That's the reason for the popularity of the paranormal shows and etc. Everyone wants to know where we go before we get there.
  • HOWARD R  •  6 months ago
    Oh! Wow! Oh! Wow! Oh! Wow! Doesn't that make you at least a little bit curious.
  • q tip  •  Boston, United States  •  6 months ago
    just goes to show whether we rich or poor, we all have to meet our maker some day.
  • Adrian  •  Olathe, United States  •  6 months ago
    Before my grandma died, she said "This pudding tastes like cardboard."

    I told the story at her wake and cracked everyone up. Death can be funny, too. We shouldn't take ourselves so seriously.
  • Punslinger08  •  Appleton, United States  •  6 months ago
    I figured on something like...'ctrl alt delete'...
  • CSM  •  6 months ago
    Atleast he didn't day "Uh-oh"...
  • J  •  6 months ago
    As my husband lay dying from bone marrow cancer, I saw him staring off into a wall in the hospital. This wall had no pictures or window. I asked him what he was staring at. He said heaven! I asked what did he see. He said green (grass) blue (skies) and balls of lights floating.
    Now a few years eariler I saw a documentary where they said in heaven, souls could be seen as balls of light.
    The next day he was staring again. He said he was looking at hell. I didn't even ask......... A few days before all th is happened the doctors removed ALL medications including pain meds for some reason?
    The next time I saw him he was in a coma. I yelled at the nurses because his body was like ice and they refused to cover him with a blanket, saying he had a fever and had to be kept cool. When I told him I was there, I saw tears coming from the corners of his eyes. His eyes popped open, but he could no longer see. He was in a "locked in" state where he could not move or talk. Apparently he could still hear. This was about 7:30 pm. I cried my eyes out, as I am about to do now. I didn't want to leave him but the person who brought me ( my car was in the garage and I lived almost a hour away) wanted to go. I told him I would be back tomorrow. But at 5 in the morning I got the call that he died. My cardiologist said it sounded like he was holding on until I could come one last time. Oh, I just started crying again.....sorry. Have to go now.
  • NillaWafer  •  Melbourne, Australia  •  6 months ago
    MOTHER TERESA: "At the END of our lives, we will NOT be judged by how many diplomas we received, or how MUCH money we made, or how many THINGS we have done. But we will be JUDGED by "...I was hungry and YOU gave me something to eat. I was naked, and YOU gave me clothes, I was homeless, and YOU gave me a place to stay."
  • Gerry  •  Costa Mesa, United States  •  6 months ago
    I do a lot of spiritual work (non-religious) and the experiences with a more awakened individual or group can be quite profound and not explainable using purely physical level type reasoning. But if you don't have these experiences it is quite natural to be skeptical. It is like trying to explain sight to someone who has always been blind. They simply cannot get it as much as they try. They will try to understand it within the paradigms they know.
    Consiouness and experiecing itself is not something explainable or will every be explainable. It is not wihtin the realm of explanation or modeling. Consioussness researchers know this. All they can do is correlate brain activity and structure to the content of experience but not the fact of it. So all of us are fundamentally beyond explanantion.
  • noneya  •  6 months ago
    Make of it what you want, for a persons last words to be ow wow while looking past family members says something that each person can decide for themselves. I have been present at 5 deaths all of them awake, they all seemed very peaceful just as they died. One was my father who did something similar he looked at the ceiling and smiled and said I am ready, then he took his last breath. I know he experienced something nice. My guess was God. My dad was not religious but in that last moment he sure seemed to be. He was not on any meds when he died, so it was all very real for both of us.
  • Betty  •  6 months ago
    I bet he saw Saint Peter at his desk using a PC.
  • Anonymous  •  6 months ago
    I had a near death experience and I can tell you what he felt: He felt relief from the pain and he weight of the world lifting from his shoulders. After a long battle with pain and disease, he finally felt peace and comfort.
  • mark  •  6 months ago
    I dont wanna sound sick nor am I a sicko that goes and chases it but I am fascinated about death. The only reason is death makes me think what's next? DO we die or do we go to other words...Will we meet Jesus; is he even real? Death is fascinating but at the same token I'm not trying to go there anytime soon. Just makes me look at stuff different is all.
  • D  •  Louisville, United States  •  6 months ago
    My brother died of stage 4 pancreatic cancer in september, 4 months after he was diagnosed... what a painful cancer it was.. he was only 59.. he kept saying jesus is enough... what he must saw in his final moments...
  • CHARLES  •  6 months ago
    His journey on this earth is complete. He has achieved his purpose and is now on a new spiritual journey forever. Hopefully his life will influence many more lives to follow that will make this world a better place to live.