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Sydney Spies, After Third Yearbook Photo Rejected, Seeks Redress

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The Colorado teenager who made national headlines when her racy senior pictured was rejected by the editors of her school yearbook has been the victim of bullying and discrimination and will continue to fight after the school rejected a third photo and used her school ID photo instead, her mother says.

Miki Spies, the mother of Durango High School senior Sydney Spies, told Westword magazine that she and Sydney's father plan to file a complaint with the Durango, Colo., school board and superintendent in the hope that they "acknowledge that there's been a lot of mishandling of this situation."

"Sydney feels very bullied, by the entire school, basically," Spies, 44, told Westword. "The school has been awful and the kids have been awful. She's received very little support in any way from anybody. There's been a ton of cyber-bullying, where people can say whatever they want without looking the person in the eyes. It's been extremely hurtful for our entire family."

Spies, 18, was notified last month by administrators at Durango High that a photo she submitted of herself posing in a short yellow skirt midriff and shoulder-exposing black shawl would not be allowed to be used as her senior portrait.

 

Spies fought back, holding a protest with her mother and other students outside the school and meeting with administrators whom, she said, banned her photo because it violated dress code.

While Spies placed the blame on school administrators, the yearbook's five student editors insisted it was their decision alone on the photo.

"We are an award-winning yearbook. We don't want to diminish the quality with something that can be seen as unprofessional," student Brian Jaramillo told the Durango Herald last month.

Spies' appeal, including the threat of a lawsuit and surrounding media coverage, did not sway the school so she submitted a second photo, this one of her posing in a strapless black dress, according to the Westword.

When that photo was rejected, also for violating dress code, the Spies family says, she submitted a third, "model-type photo" that was rejected as well, this time  because she missed the deadline, according to Spies.

"The yearbook adviser and editors have decided to use my school ID picture as my senior photo. Since I went to NY, then had the flu they said I was too late to submit another Sr. picture," she wrote on her Facebook page.  "They ALSO decided that I couldn't use the 'controversial' picture in my ad anymore that I had already paid for, so I requested my money back. I also dropped my yearbook class because its become a hostile environment. What a lovely Sr. year this has turned out to be…"

The yearbook's editors had originally offered their fellow student the opportunity to include the original photo in one of the ad pages in the back of the yearbook, just not as her senior photo.

Miki Spies also commented on the situation on her own Facebook page.

"This whole yearbook photo has me thinking again. A lot of people are questioning my parenting skills. My kids tell me everything and I try to guide them as best as I can. But in the end I allow them to make their own decisions resulting in their own successes or failures," she wrote.  "I don't see what resulted with all of this as a failure at all. Sydney has had the world see her photo. In my opinion the fact …that she would love to be a famous model someday shows that she made a pretty interesting decision! No matter how all of this turns out my daughter made her own choice and is ready to make her own way."

Neither Spies nor the school responded to requests for comment placed today by ABCNews.com.

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  • Mr. Byron  •  Tucker, Georgia  •  3 months ago
    I have a brilliant idea! Just take a regular picture like every other student in the school...
    • PatricaJ 3 months ago
      I agree fully! She should have read the guidelines for the senior pix... and FOLLOWED them!!
    • RustburgMike 3 months ago
      She wouldn't be getting this attention if she did that =)
    • Dan 3 months ago
      Really! Show everyone who you are by looking just like everyone else! Individuality is for insecure attention-seekers!
  • OldDan  •  3 months ago
    If she wishes to publish a privately funded portfolio that is fine. In this case, it is school funded and the school maintains the standards of publication.
    • Jenny 3 months ago
      Excellent point, I agree 100%
    • Das Manatee 3 months ago
      Das mother is pushing this no doubt
    • treeman7616 3 months ago
      Right, and the editors did there job. There are people on here that think she needs put in a bag and thrown into a river!!!!! People have`nt changed since the Romans!!
  • realshopper  •  Los Angeles, California  •  3 months ago
    LOL!!! the dad is going to file a complaint because his daughter looks like a hooker, give me a break.
    • Clive Sandringham 3 months ago
      "Like mother, like daughter." They probably do three-somes at home, anyway.
    • hombre 3 months ago
      man, you guys are on top of it. i am only jealous cuz i didn't think of this first. lmao. yep, i am sure daddy, mommy and daughter get it on a 3some. hmm, could be that is why thinks she should get everything she wants especially when she gets it from daddy. GOD BLESS THE USA!!!!!
    • Cliche Guevara 3 months ago
      Realshopper, you're wrong.
      Dad is filing a complaint because the school WON'T let her look like a hooker.
  • the redrev  •  Guangzhou, China  •  3 months ago
    Miki ..... we aren't questioning your parenting skills ..... we're laughing at them
    • Chris 3 months ago
      pow, right in the kisser
    • F 3 months ago
      Ya gotta laugh or else you'd cry. It's not like we went looking for this sad drama. It was blasted in our freakin face once again when we went to read the news. It is thoroughly disgusting, kid yourself not.
    • madmonkey 3 months ago
      I snorted milk out my nose
  • Micah S  •  Farmington, Michigan  •  3 months ago
    What is she upset about? So what her picture didn't make the yearbook. IT MADE YAHOO FRONT PAGE.
    • Annie 3 months ago
      Now you see just how low you can go, making yahoo news.
    • pamelal 3 months ago
      She and her parents, apparently, subscribe to the philosophy 'there is no such thing as bad publicity.' They got what they wanted: she's probably already got a contract w Victoria's Secret, then on to Playboy. That's some ambition she's got!
    • Missa 3 months ago
      Publicity is what she wanted. Publicity is what she got.
  • Traci  •  Albany, New York  •  3 months ago
    This doesn't look like a yearbook photo it looks like the beginning of a centerfold spread!! The school is right to reject the photo. Too bad the parents didn't have any of the common sense that the school does; and this is the reason that even good parents are being stripped of their rights to raise their children as we see fit. It is because so many parents are letting their kids do things like this and they are not opposed to it instead they encourage it and are ready to go to any lengths to make sure that their children (no matter if it is right or wrong) get their own way.
  • MrkyMrk64  •  Orlando, Florida  •  3 months ago
    While the original submitted photo is certainly a nice one, it is not yearbook "senior picture" material. When I was in school, it was expected that your senior picture would be taken in formal attire and be of professional portrait quality with an uncluttered background. Every member of the student body knew this. If this girl wants to be a model, she needs to flaunt herself in a professional portfolio, not the high school yearbook.
  • mike  •  3 months ago
    Welcome to life; You masquerade around in provocative clothing and poses, you're going to draw attention to yourself. Not all of it positive. Quit trying to argue she's the victim of bullying.
  • Kit  •  New Orleans, Louisiana  •  3 months ago
    And to think...some people have real problems in the world.
  • Stephanie  •  Austin, Texas  •  3 months ago
    And, in the end, they're getting exactly what they want, national attention. This was never an outcry over people refusing to publish a photo, it was a "Hey, let's do something that we know will never get put in a yearbook, then pitch a national media sized fit and get our fifteen minutes of fame. We might even get a reality tv show!" I vote for the 'just ignore them, they'll go away' route. You too, media. Stop feeding this pathetic charade.
  • E  •  3 months ago
    LOL A whole family of cheesy publicity seekers trying to pass themselves off as civil rights activists. Hilarious.
  • danny  •  Fort Collins, Colorado  •  3 months ago
    As a former member of a yearbook staff, props to the school for leaving out trash. A senior photo is supposed to showcase what you love; not be a raunchy photo shoot... unless she's 18 and loves porn, already.... Nice parenting, ugh.
  • ticktock  •  Houston, Texas  •  3 months ago
    its a yearbook, not Penthouse...
  • Broco Lee  •  Seattle, Washington  •  3 months ago
    Mom said, "In my opinion the fact …that she would love to be a famous model someday shows that she made a pretty interesting decision!" Just as I suspected...publicity stunt.
  • mark  •  3 months ago
    Now she's going to play victim and try to blame everybody but herself. Her photo looks like an advertisement for an adult business, not an advertisement for minors. The school yearbook made the right decision, get over it.
  • 1540  •  3 months ago
    Apparently she believes none of the rules apply to her.
  • Shelly  •  Export, Pennsylvania  •  3 months ago
    Can we please stop giving this family the attention that they so desperately seek? Post a nice head shot and be done with it. Do they honestly not think that these pictures are inappropriate??? How about this...the school said no....it's done. What ever happened to following the rules? I'm so sick of this, "But my kid wants to!" attitude from parents nowadays. It's unbelievable.
  • luckymee  •  Santa Clara, California  •  3 months ago
    What kind of parents don't understand propriety? A yearbook is not Playboy magazine. This is a nice looking girl, but she is dressed inappropriately for a high school yearbook photograph. It would be ok if she was advertising her services as a hooker.
  • spjrny  •  3 months ago
    When I was in high school we never got to "submit" our senior portraits. We all went to the same school and the boys had to wear a shirt and tie and the girls got a lovely "drape" shawly thing with feathers on the front. Everyone basically wore the same thing. That was back in the 80s. What's up with this "senior portrait" crap that you can submit your own photo?
  • msyellarose  •  Nashville, Tennessee  •  3 months ago
    Oh when will people quit acting a fool? This pic does not belong in a high school yearbook and they know it.