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Teen Gives Birth, Loses Cancer Fight

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Teen Gives Birth, Loses Cancer Fight (ABC News)"I'm done, I did what I was supposed to. My baby is going to get here safe."

That's what 17-year-old Jenni Lake told a nurse after she delivered her son Chad Michael Lake Wittman, the Associate Press reported.

Twelve days later, on Nov. 21, 2011, the teen mom died from the brain tumor that she had been fighting for more than a year.

Her final request: that Chad lay beside her as she died.

The migraines had started about a year before, when Jenni was a sophomore at Pocatello High School in Idaho. After doctors found a 2 centimeter mass on her brain from an MRI scan, she was diagnosed with stage three astrocytoma, a tumor that affects the brain and spinal cord. Doctors gave her a 30 percent chance of surviving two years with treatment.

Only weeks after Jenni was diagnosed with cancer, she found out she was 10 weeks pregnant. Doctors told her she had to terminate the pregnancy or stop treatment while pregnant for the safety of the baby. Jenni reportedly did not consider terminating the baby. She decided to forgo radiation and chemotherapy while pregnant.

"I guess we were just hoping that after she had the baby, she could go back on the chemotherapy and get better," her mother, Diana Phillips, told the AP.

Her family documented the heartwrenching year through a series of YouTube videos appropriately titled, "Jenni's Journey."

"I don't know how long this is going to last and I just want it to go away," Jenni said in one of the videos uploaded on November 20, 2010.

The baby's father, Jenni's boyfriend, Nathan Wittman, will take care of Chad in Idaho, the AP reported.

While the ability to conceive during cancer therapy is dependent on the type of therapy, Dr. Ian Holzman, chief of newborn medicine at Mount Sinai School of Medicine in New York, said he has seen mothers who are either on cancer treatment or have postponed it until after delivery. But, the risk to the baby from some toxic anti-tumor medications are indeed "real," said Holzman.

According to Hope for Two, an organization designed for pregnant women with cancer, chemotherapy has been given to women in their second and third trimester, after the fetal organs have developed. Cancer affects as many as one in 1,000 pregnancies, according to the organization.

A  study published in September found that children born after their mothers were treated with chemotherapy during pregnancy appeared healthy, although many were born pre-term, which researchers said affected many of the children's cognitive development.

But again, each mother's case is individual to her diagnosis and treatment.

"The decision on how to proceed is a very personal one," Holzman wrote in an email. "The mother/family need to weigh possible maternal death against fetal/neonatal death and/or malformations.  I would never "recommend" one or another choice without having agonizing discussions with the family about their beliefs and goals.  In some cases, the data are clear that cancer treatment, if not started immediately, will fail and in other cases it is less clear. Similarly, the fetal/neonatal risks are clear and in others less clear."

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  • Dance of the Animal Crack ...  •  3 months ago
    My heart goes out to the family. I'm proud of this young lady. She chose to keep her baby and give her child the chance at life. Heart breaking. I hate cancer :( I hope her son always knows how wonderfully brave and his Mommy was.
  • Samantha W.  •  4 months ago
    I lost my beautiful daughter in 2009 and I would have given anything to have had a grandchild from her. She was only 11 years old though so she never even got the chance to have her first kiss...I am glad that Jenni kept the baby...yes she made the ultimate sacrifice but she will always be a part of him and she did it out of love for her baby and for her family...
    • A Yahoo! User 4 months ago
      In my country of Iran, 11 is perfect for breeding the child.
    • A Yahoo! User 4 months ago
      Kourosh....holla back there Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah........
    • free 2 B me 4 months ago
      In your country ..there is a perfect reason for castration...
  • L  •  4 months ago
    Chad will always know the ultimate sacrifice that his mother gave him. Best of luck to you, little Chad.
    • Jay 4 months ago
      Frank, did you read the article? She didn't take chemo because she didn't want it to affect the baby.
    • L 4 months ago
      Sure hope you don't have any children, Frank.
    • mia 4 months ago
      Frank read the article before you make stupid comments!!
  • VINCE  •  Huntsville, Alabama  •  4 months ago
    The really sad part is that had she chose to terminate the pregnancy, she might have still died. And, then two lives would be missed. The family should rest assured the absolutely right and just decision was made by a very young, generous woman. Just my humble opinion.
    • Buckzilla 4 months ago
      who are these people that are giving thumbs down to all these comments about the decision this young mother made? why don't they give their opinion?
    • A Yahoo! User 4 months ago
      You're from Alabama....I can understand how teen pregnancy is normal for you.
    • tracey 4 months ago
      please, there was only a 30% cure rate with the treatment. she had the right to decide what was going to happen to her and her baby. that's the beauty of being pro choice, which i am. you have the right to choose to terminate a pregnancy or not to terminate a pregnancy.
  • Anthony  •  Boston, Massachusetts  •  4 months ago
    All these stories on the internet. I just wish I was in a better $$ position to help humanity. Maybe I will just volunteer
    • Sandy 4 months ago
      There are thousands of opportunities for volunteering in every city in the world. I volunteer at a hospice and at marathons giving comfort and sports massages respectively. It is a wonderful and rewarding way to help others and I get so much more out of it than I give. Find a skill or interest that you have, a need in the community, match them up, and enjoy!
    • TMC 4 months ago
      Lol...please, volunteering is a total fallacy. Organizations are making puppets out of you, and you aren't going to be ending up the better for it. They save money by people like yourselves who think that volunteering is such a wonderful thing. That marketing ploy works wonders on unsuspecting souls. Besides, the reality is, you can not change others, they have to want to change. You enable them by volunteering, because you keep the organizations going, that truly destroy the very essence of those whom they concede and purport that they assist and help out of the challenges of life. I don't know how long you have lived, but life in an everyday sense has challenges, and if you don't face them, and work out of them yourselves, you become more dependent upon others to 'assist' and 'do for you', and in the end, you do not grow...rather you wither away.
    • cheryl 4 months ago
      Tina..I have to disagree with you on that one. All it takes is one person to touch someones life to make a difference. I got involved with a 16 yr. old that was going down in life. I sat and LISTENED to her and now that young lady of 22 has a full time job, married, and 2 children. She has removed herself from a neighborhood of problems and never wants to go back. She was a very angry girl who thought no one cared enough about her. She is a victim of her own family's issues and I would have never known that if I hadn't taken the time to LISTEN. Sometimes that's all people need is for someone to get involved and help them make and understand the choices they have. If volunteering isn't for you...that's fine...BUT DON'T TRY TO DISCOURAGE OTHERS WHO MAY WANT TO!!! Everything is not always about money. You can't put a price on people's life!!!!
  • Ericka M  •  4 months ago
    My heart goes out to your family, she made a hard decision, an unselfish one and she knew her son would be in good hands with all of her family and the dads family, continue to keep her memory alive so that her son will know how much his mother loved him.
    • Joy Ray 4 months ago
      You said it very well!
    • A Yahoo! User 4 months ago
      Actually, it's a toss up if the kid was loved as much as the teen mommies Iphone.
    • mia 4 months ago
      Sally, where did you get that moronic comment????
  • Fabian Isichei  •  Lagos, Nigeria  •  4 months ago
    Jenni made a Choice for life dying that her child may live. I hope & pray that we may be able to make the same choice if faced with a similar decision. Rest in perfect peace Jenny for u have left a unique footprint in the sands of time. May God reward you for this.
  • o wow!  •  4 months ago
    That baby had a very brave & loving mother....RIP Jenni.
  • Deck  •  Dallas, Texas  •  4 months ago
    With a 30% chance of survival with two years of difficulty... and a chance of it coming back a few year later... This seems like the better choice. At least she had a choice.

    If it was 90%+ chance of survival, then of course that would change things. Even at 50/50 - would create be debatable... but her odds were too low.

    Condolences to her whole family and her baby.
  • Jessi  •  Thornville, Ohio  •  4 months ago
    Shows the true meaning of a Mother's love for her child. She gave her life, or what was left of it, to allow her child a chance to live. She was dying, there was no way around that but there was a life inside of her that had every chance. For being so young, she has strength beyond what most people do. R.I.P. Jenni. Your child will forever be the greatest gift you could have given to your family.. A piece of you.
  • tracie  •  Houston, Texas  •  4 months ago
    Very sad...
  • Suzy W  •  4 months ago
    Wow, what a terrible choice to have to make. I think that given the odds that I would not live longer than two years, I probably would have chosen to give birth, too. I hope people really do not turn this into an abortion debate. I am pro-choice, and she made a CHOICE, which I think everyone should have the right to do.
  • Tuffy  •  4 months ago
    How does a story about a young girl sacrificing her life so that her baby could live turn into something so ugly? This is a human being, a real person. Not a fictional character in a storybook. Why are people so mean? A family has lost their daughter. At least they will have her child in their lives and a part of their child will live on. Unless, you've lost a child you have no idea what this family is going through. I pity all of you cruel heartless people. You must lead miserable lives.
  • DorleneA  •  Show Low, Arizona  •  4 months ago
    Every one of us makes a choice; Not always good choices, but never the less we are free to choose. To the hateful, selfish posters, your mother made the choice to give you life. Allow others that same choice. This baby could have had his mother taken in a car accident, but it was cancer. Sometimes we get to make a choice, sometimes not.
  • yakety-yak  •  Jacksonville, Florida  •  4 months ago
    God Love Her!
  • A Yahoo! User  •  4 months ago
    At least we can decide for ourselves and not the Government telling us what to do.
  • Gris  •  Lafayette, Louisiana  •  4 months ago
    If there was only a 30 percent chance that she'd even live two years with treatment, how was it selfish of her to choose to have her child? She was very likely going to die, but chose to give her son a chance at life.
  • anonymous  •  Buffalo, New York  •  4 months ago
    What a sad sad story. I have to stop reading all these depressing stories,
  • mad man  •  Milford, Connecticut  •  4 months ago
    listen to all of the judgmental trolls on here, hope nobody talks trash about you when you die
  • Lala  •  Omaha, Nebraska  •  4 months ago
    Very difficult, but I applaud her bravery and sacrifice.