John Burri, Father of Fallen Soldier, Burns NJ Flag to Protest Whitney Houston Tribute

A Michigan man whose son died in Iraq has burned the state flag of New Jersey after New Jersey flew its flags at half-staff in memory of Whitney Houston last week.

"They're watering down the term of what a true hero is these days," John Burri told ABC News. "I thought it was offensive to every family's fallen solider out there, and it cheapens the meaning of lowering the flag."

The 60-year-old's decision to torch the New Jersey flag on his Wyoming, Mich., patio grill came after New Jersey Gov. Chris Christie ordered flags flown at half-staff to honor the singer Whitney Houston, a Garden State native who was buried in her home state on Sunday.

Burri believes flags should only be lowered for those who died serving their country.

"My intention was not to hurt anyone, especially the residents of New Jersey," said Burri. "My intention was to show Gov. Christie how offensive it was."

The governor has defended his decision, calling Houston a "cultural icon."

"Her accomplishments in her life were a source of great pride for many people in this state and for the state as a whole, and so on that basis I think she's entitled to have that recognition," Christie told reporters last week.

After seeing Christie's comments on the local news, Burri said he set out on a mission to honor his son, Army Spc. Eric Burri, who died in 2005 when an explosive device detonated near the Humvee in which he was patrolling.

Burri bought a replica New Jersey flag, tied it to the back of his car and drove around two veteran memorials in Grand Rapids, Mich. He then stopped at his son's burial site before going home and burning the flag.

"Best $12.95 I've ever spent," said Burri.

"Sometimes, you have to do something drastic and extreme for people to listen," Burri said. "I just hope it made a point that maybe someone will pick this up and get a new law made for flag etiquette."

Federal law gives governors of American states power to have flags lowered for residents or state officials.

There is no law requiring that person to have served in the armed forces.

According to the Associated Press, Christie's office has ordered flags flown at half-staff 42 times, including for Morristown coach Harry Shatel and E Street Band saxophonist Clarence Clemons.

Burri still believes Houston could have been honored in another way.

"I have some peace now. This is done. The word is out there," Burri said. "I hope and pray something is done to prevent this from ever happening again."

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  • Janet  •  Nashville, Tennessee  •  2 months ago
    Why can our tax payer money be used to block fans away for 6 blocks so that Whitney's family can mourn in peace but we can't stop the Westboro Baptist Church for interupting a US soldier's funeral?????? No disrespect to Whitney and her family but what about soldiers who give their life so that we may live ours.
    • George P 2 months ago
      basically it because of what Meg said ....... and THAT is not racist !!! THAT is pure FACT !!!
    • I Love Everybody 2 months ago
      Be afraid when conservatives call something 'pure fact', its really a lie in disguise, now @Janet, you certainly are disrespectful to even bring that up. If this was for Elvis Presley, you'd all be saying prayers for his family idiots.
    • Cally 2 months ago
      what a wonderful point. Makes you wonder what the hell is wrong with this country.
  • Christopher  •  Waterville, Maine  •  2 months ago
    What I do disagree with is that she has 2 blocks cleared so the family can grieve in peace, but anti war protesters can yell and scream 50 yards away at a fallen soldiers funeral. If you can clear out 2 blocks for a funeral for 1 singer you can clear out 2 blocks for all the men and women who have given their lives for our countries freedom
    • Steve-O in AZ 2 months ago
      I fully agree with you. We band together in my town when those nut job church goons were going to protest a Ft. Huachuca soldier that died in combat...
    • Junior Nortman 2 months ago
      now i do agree with that
    • Susan S. 2 months ago
      You are SO SO SO right!
  • coloradian  •  Tokai-shi, Japan  •  2 months ago
    sorry for his loss,
    Eric must have been a wonderful son
    • yeah, i said it 2 months ago
      it's different here pal!
    • Alphonso 2 months ago
      He should ask Haliburton to lower their flag because that's who his son was fighting for.Don't educate your childen so they don't have an option but to fight for U.S.corporate interest hardly qualifies them as heroes.
    • Brandon 2 months ago
      way to burn the flag your kid died for...... what an idiot
  • Dook!  •  2 months ago
    Talent is a gift... Character is a choice.
    • Towerwarlock 2 months ago
      Lack of talent is still inflicted on us, look at the Kardishans.
    • Chris 2 months ago
      Well said.
    • nyc 2 months ago
      Hi Towerwarlock, Kardishans have something special which you cannot see.
  • GS  •  2 months ago
    I understand how he feels. I also lost my son. How can you compare a fallen soldier who died for his country to a drug and alcohol addicted singer? Truly a shame. Let's not cheapen the meaning of lowering the flag at half-mass.
    • HockeyLady 2 months ago
      My sympathy to you for your loss.
    • Callisto 2 months ago
      I too am sorry for the man's loss but Mrs. Houston was more than a drug and alcohol addicted singer. In spite of her personal problems, she helped alot of people. She never went out of her way to hurt anyone. Soldiers fight and die for us every day and I, for one, am very appreciative of their sacrifice. But I'm not naive enough to believe that soldiers don't suffer the same maladies as Whitney.
    • Randy 2 months ago
      I don't think there should be a comparison, but many insist on making one. One has absolutely NOTHING to do with the other - NOTHING!
  • lindsay  •  Tampa, Florida  •  2 months ago
    Have you ever noticed that when anyone dies of drugs or alcohol they are an ICON and it is a national tragedy and they hold a circus event. When someone dies defending some other persons rights in another country you hardly hear about it. What the hell is wrong with this country
  • j  •  2 months ago
    Christie will probably lower the flags when Snookie dies from alcohol posioning.
  • Lance  •  Salt Lake City, Utah  •  2 months ago
    I agree 100 percent. Whitney was a great singer but she was also a drug addict and definitely not a role model for our youth. Flying the flag was a greatly disrespectful for our veterans, of whom I am one (Vietnam).
  • connie  •  Arden, North Carolina  •  2 months ago
    What Christie did was open a can of worms for everyone. We lower flags as an honor to those that gave their life not take their life from drugs. Has the code for lowering the flag now changed? Dad you did the right thing. So sorry for your great loss.
  • RML  •  Culpeper, Virginia  •  2 months ago
    That man's son died to protect all our first amendment rights. He can burn whatever flag he wants as far as I'm concerned.
  • danny h  •  Sherman, Texas  •  2 months ago
    I'm sorry for your son. and you'r right,
  • amazed  •  Meadville, Pennsylvania  •  2 months ago
    Gotta say I AGREE with him! Not to say that Whitney was not an amazing ENTERTAINER! She was a beautiful singer, a "hero" she was not! So sad to the state we've come to. :(
  • kJm2007  •  Waco, Texas  •  2 months ago
    I agree with the father. The flag should be only flown at half-staff to honor those that have actually done something great to honor his or her country, not because so-n-so won this many Grammys. Not just for soldiers, but also for firemen, police officers, etc. These are the men and women that deserve to be paid tribute to.
  • Maria L  •  Bellows Falls, Vermont  •  2 months ago
    What are we telling our children when we as a nation idolize substance abuse addicts?
  • Tired of the bs.  •  Warren, Massachusetts  •  2 months ago
    NBC news spent an incredible amount of time covering Houston's and her ex's problems. More than they spend on any other story (other than when an ex-newscaster dies). They are really full of themselves and are totally in love with Hollywood.
  • RTG  •  2 months ago
    She may have been a talented singer before she succumbed to drugs, but she was certainly no hero. It's a sad day when the flags go to half-mast for has been divas instead of actual heros.
  • STFU  •  2 months ago
    Mr. Burri it has been a while since this story was reported and I just wanted you to know that you, your family and your son are still in my thoughts. p.s. I would have done the same thing.
  • Matthew  •  Boston, Massachusetts  •  2 months ago
    Props to this dad!. Lowering the flag for a singer takes away from the sacrafice of every person that has died protecting this country. Mourning Whitney is fine, but find another way to honor her.
  • James  •  2 months ago
    Why do we lavish praise, adoration and obscene amounts of money on athletes and entertainers? At the same time, we demonize business owners who risked it all to build a product and employ people, and ignore soldiers, police, firefighters and other dedicated public servants. It just ain't right!
  • JD  •  2 months ago
    Although I do not approve of burning the flag, I sure can understand his angst. Bless Daddy