Penn State Scandal: Mother of Sandusky's Adopted Son Speaks Out

The birth mother of Jerry Sandusky's youngest adopted child has come forward saying she believes the former Penn State coach led her son on a path of self-destruction and that she contacted authorities years ago about her son's safety.

Debra Long told ABC News in an exclusive interview that sharing her now 33-year-old son Matt with Sandusky had been a nightmare after the coach became the boy's guardian via foster care in 1995. Long says that she watched as her child became enamored with the local hero and then increasingly frightened by Sandusky's behavior.

"It was Jerry Sandusky, you know? Any 10-year-old kid is gonna be impressed by Penn State football," Long said. "And then it was the gifts. You know, money and clothing and whatever … It was as if Jerry owned Matthew."

Sandusky entered the lives of the Longs as a mentor when Matt was 10 years old, via The Second Mile charity for at-risk youth, which the former Penn State defensive coordinator founded. When Matt was placed in juvenile hall after he set fire to a barn in 1995, he soon entered the Sandusky home as a foster child. He was adopted by Sandusky as an adult at age 18.

Matt Sandusky, now 33, is not named as one of the 10 victims in the grand jury presentment outlining the charges against the coach. He insists he was not abused by his foster father.

But Debra Long says that the once-welcome Sandusky soon became a source of fear for her son, as he would take the boy out of school when he was 15 years old, unbeknownst to her.

"My son was afraid of Jerry. If Jerry said don't talk, he didn't talk. I would sit back and watch when Jerry would show up, how excited Matt was," she said. "And then, as time went on, I would watch the same kid hide behind the bedroom door and say, 'Mom, tell him I'm not home.'"

Long believes that exposure to Sandusky was what made her once-quiet son lash out, and eventually fall into the coach's hands.

"It wasn't until Jerry came into the picture that Matt started acting out in school. Matt ended up burning down a barn with another youth, you know -- it wasn't until Jerry came into the picture … that mentor turned him from the quiet, good kid into -- what Jerry could use to take him."

Four months after moving into the Sandusky's home Matt attempted suicide, along with another girl who was staying in the house, according to a report in the Patriot-News. After the suicide attempt, Terry L. Trude, a school-based probation officer, wrote a letter to a local judge asking that Matt's care at the Sandusky home be reviewed.

"The probation department has some serious concerns about the juvenile's safety and his current progress in placement with the Sandusky family," Trude wrote.

The adoption file for Matt Sandusky contains letters from Long to officials and a Centre County judge expressing concern for her son, who she was allowed to visit only one-half day per month while he was in Sandusky's care.

Matt Sandusky – who is one of five boys adopted by Sandusky and his wife -- still supports Jerry after he was arrested on charges of 40 counts of sexual assault with 10 minor boys over 15 years. Matt even brought his children to visit Sandusky after his Nov. 5 arrest.

But the mother of Matt's kids immediately went to court to obtain an order preventing Sandusky from being alone with her children. By court order Sandusky is now not allowed unsupervised contact or overnight visits with his grandchildren.

Alleged Victims Ready for Court

In the aftermath of Jerry Sandusky's unexpected interview on "Rock Center" with Bob Costas on Monday night, a number of witnesses are now ready and willing to testify in court that they were sexually assaulted by the coach.

A second boy has said that he is now ready to testify in court, according to Harrisburg attorney Ben Andreozzi, who is representing the boy. According to Andreozzi , the alleged victim called him after Sandusky gave the controversial interview on Monday.

"He has decided to dig in his heels. He's not going anywhere. He fully intends to testify," Andreozzi said.

In a statement issued Wednesday, Andreozzi said Sandusky "elected to re-victimize these young men at a time when they should be healing," and said his client was "disappointed" by Sandusky's comments.

"I think he would like Mr. Sandusky to assume responsibility for the horrible acts he committed on him," Andreozzi said.

Another boy known to be planning to testify is one known as "Victim 1" in the indictment; he is the boy who first came forward to authorities to allege abuse at the hands of Sandusky. The boy has already told his story to the grand jury and is anxious to tell it again in open court, according to his mother.

"He wants him to go to jail, and he wants him to pay for what he's done, and he doesn't want him on the streets where he can hurt somebody else," the unnamed boy's mother told ABC News.

Meanwhile, The Patriot-News reports that hearing Sandusky's interview broadcast on national television Monday has triggered more of the coach's alleged victims to come forward.

"They're literally processing it right in front of us," attorney Andy Shubin told the Patriot-News. "They have kept it from their families, moms, brothers and sisters ... The folks we talked to are largely folks in their 20s, who in a lot of cases have never told their story before."

Shubin has reportedly teamed up with Andreozzi, and along with a team of psychologists and social workers they plan to aid the alleged victims by providing seeking mental help and possible legal recourse.

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  • James D  •  6 months ago
    I cannot believe how horrible this is and how so many people decided to look the other way instead of doing what was right.
    • Robert M 6 months ago
      As a recovering Catholic, I know the Church managed to do it for centuries. One pope had at least two children while he was pope.
    • Magoya 6 months ago
      That's the religion of "football" in america. Sick, very sick!!!
    • Scott 6 months ago
      It's not football, it's money.
  • skipNclair  •  6 months ago
    the biggest reason he may not want to admit that something happened to him, is the fear of now the entire world knowing what went on. imagine the shame one might feel if it was known that you were sodomized. its like many women who are raped and then won't report it.
    • DB Cooper 6 months ago
      As a 13 year old boy I was groped by a sicko in a public restroom at the beach. The whole incident took just seconds to occur but has stuck with me for a lifetime. I am now 48. I immediately ran out of the restroom and found 2 nearby cops, told them what happened. They caught the guy, and spoke with him. One of the cops even made the remark (and these are his exact words...I STILL remember) "There is definitely something strange about this guy" So do you know what the cops did? They let him go. Just let him walk away. Never arrested him, only took his name. No police report NOTHING. I was so angry.
      My friends that were with me at the beach that day teased me all through high school about the incident until I beat the hell out of one of them and they finally shut up.
      2 years after this incident the newspapers carried a story about this guy. He had abducted, raped and strangled a 10 year old boy and kept his body in the bathtub in his house in ice cubes for 2 days. Neighbors had turned him in based on a police drawing of witnesses to the abduction. They later testified that he frequently brought young boys to his house, but had told everyone that he was a volunteer at a local charity.
    • SusanL 6 months ago
      it is true, people hid what happens to them and sometimes try as hard as you may, you may feel that did something wrong which needs to be clear that a victim is not at fault; these children were raped, abused, and then terrorized; what are you going to think when you are being raped, someone walks in and then leaves b/c people don't have the backbone of right v. paycheck any more. The paycheck wins, very sad
    • StevenJ 6 months ago
      nobody seems to detect possible sexism in the above case and others? If these gropings and molestations happened to girls I believe the actions taken would be greater and more forceful. By that I mean in db coopers case that if he were a girl the cops would have handled it differently and maybe taken that guy off the streets. certainly not just let him go. I mean I do not think there is quite the same level of moral outrage when these things happen to boys versus when they happen to girls.
  • flower girl  •  6 months ago
    He should be taken back into custody and await his trial in jail, just like any other pedophile would be. He didn't even have to post bail.
    • Marc 6 months ago
      So much for the concept of innocent until proven guilty. Label someone a pedophile and they are automatically guilty with no rights whatsoever. Lets hope that never happens to you....
    • DB Cooper 6 months ago
      Marc....did you read the 23 page indictment? Each of the 8 victims testified and only two of them knew each other. In every single testimonial the pattern and actions of Sandusky were consistent. Keep in mind that when you go in to speak to the grand jury NO ONE else involved in the case is in the room. So it's not like everyone was repeating what they heard someone else saying. As much as I understand your point, enough information has been released to convict this man pre trial. I just wonder how he will ever get a fair trial since everyone and their brother has had access to so much damning evidence.
    • jim 6 months ago
      So what you are saying Marc is this, let him walk the streets a free man, allowing him to abuse more and more boys. In my opinion anyone who defends Sandusky must be a pedophile himself.
  • da  •  6 months ago
    One more shocking fact: this woman's daughter, Matt Sandusky's sister, is married to the local DA who not only sat on the investigation and turned it over to the state AG (now Governor) in 2008 because of a conflict of interest, but he was also in the office in 1998 when they had evidence against Sandusky and let him walk.
    • Truthbetold 6 months ago
      wow
    • faye 6 months ago
      That would explain why nothing was done .
      Family cover up .
      Shame or family trait .
    • imok 6 months ago
      Da you are wrong Ray Gricar was the DA in 1998 not Madeira! Get your facts straight.
  • Ed  •  6 months ago
    Sandusky is quickly turning into a monster sexual predator! It is also becoming apparent that the high level personnel at Penn State were: See No Evil. Hear No Evil, and Speak No Evil !
    • hammer 6 months ago
      RIGHT - JUST LIKE THE MONKEYS WE ALL SUSPOSED TO COME FROM!!1
    • Marcie 6 months ago
      It just makes you wonder how many boys there really are...It's like the Tiger Woods scandal in a way...once the can of worms is opened, more keep coming forward. I feel so badly for all these young men that have been dealing with this on their own for so many years.
    • Virginia 6 months ago
      This is NOT like Tiger Woods....Tiger did NOT abuse innocent children as Sandusky is alleged to have done. Bad comparison...really!!
  • World Citizen  •  6 months ago
    Okay now I am starting to think that the police department needs to be investigated. How many people have contacted them with severe allegations and they did nothing. Is there an internal affairs department that could get involved. So many wrongs here I am starting to lose track.
  • Everyday American  •  6 months ago
    Thank goodness Matt's wife isn't buying into the hype. PROTECT THOSE KIDS!!!!
  • NotPrejudiced  •  Oklahoma City, United States  •  6 months ago
    Matt brainwashed by the elder Sandusky? Read between the lines and you decide. I believe his loyalty to his "father" is more like ingrained fear.
  • nichols  •  North Stonington, United States  •  6 months ago
    Fear of embaressment keeps many victims from coming forward. I hope that the victims can find ways of dealing with events that will allow them to lead normal lives (forgive us our tresspasses as we forgive those who tresspass against us).
  • Brad  •  6 months ago
    All boys (5 of them) he adopted huh? Go figure.
  • nannyjane  •  6 months ago
    it is NOT A SEX SCANDAL !!!!!! it is Sexual Child Abuse of young children !! RAPE !!!! he needs to go to jail and anybody who knew and did not speak up is just as guilty, EVEN JO PA....GOD HELP US ALL
  • lisa  •  6 months ago
    I would like to know if Sandusky ever molested any of these boys at his house and if he did where was his wife at the time?where did he take the child in his house that he could explain
    to his wife why they were in that particular room alone.I think she just looked the other way.
  • Honesty  •  6 months ago
    There is no way he didn't victimize Matt. For sure there was some negative psychological
    influence over him. Perhaps he made him an unwilling participant in his abuse of some of the other victims. Why was he approved to adopt Matt and the other children after all the negative input from the mother, probation officer, a judge and other officials? All of this to me is just a symptom of our sick society and our failure to protect the young and vulnerable
    from these predators. It seems we play right into their hands by" looking the other way". My big question is: where was his wife in all of this??????????? What role did she play as enabler? EVERYONE involved should be held legally accountable for their inaction, including the Governor of Pennsylvania, while he was the D.A.
  • BP427  •  6 months ago
    what a predator. there needs to be a full investigation by the F.B.I. into this case.
  • roger  •  6 months ago
    There should be enough evidence now to set his bond at 10 million and put him in jail until the trial and then forever. He is becoming a threat to run because he can see that his end is near.
  • glen  •  6 months ago
    Jerry says that sodomy on a 10 year old boy is nothing more than horseplay. Jerry is wrong!
  • Miriam  •  6 months ago
    They need to check ALL the boys he adopted. Why else would a man who is only sexually attracted to young boys adopt five. Can you imagine the fun he had showering with them ?
  • nobamahere  •  5 months ago
    When he goes to prison, i truly hope that ALL the inmates want to roughhouse in the showers with him.
  • daryl  •  6 months ago
    This is not a conservative vs. liberal issue! If you're a conservative who feels the need to blame this on liberals, do those of us who are tired of the ridiculous left vs. right war a favor and keep it to your self. I would say the same to the libs, but I've yet to read a post from a liberal blaming this on conservatives.
  • wiprguy  •  6 months ago
    No one bothered to investigate...............the power and corruption of college athletics. One word....money...money ..money....how sad is this. But, we don't need to look any farther than DC see that money talks..or keeps people silent.