Tyler Clementi Cyberbullying Trial Begins Today

Jury selection begins Tuesday in a New Brunswick, N.J., courtroom for the trial of Dahrun Ravi, the Rutgers University student who with a silent flip of his laptop webcam secretly watched his roommate in a moment of gay intimacy, and unwittingly set in motion a series of events that would make him a national symbol of cyber-bullying.

The trial, which will be broadcast live across the country and as far away as India, will culminate a criminal prosecution that many believe would never have happened if not for the fact that Tyler Clementi, Ravi's gay roommate, jumped to his death from the George Washington Bridge on Sept. 22, 2010 -- just three days after Ravi electronically captured him kissing a man in his dorm room.

While authorities were only beginning their investigation, the media and public readily connected the dots, and Clementi's death struck a growing anti-bullying nerve in America and became a blog-driven lightening rod for outrage in the gay community.

Although the court of the public opinion condemned Ravi in the immediate aftermath of Clementi's death, two former New Jersey prosecutors say it will be a much more challenging case in the court of law.

"Pressure from gay rights groups, and global media attention made this case one that had to be prosecuted," former New Jersey prosecutor Robert Honecker said. "Yet the charges themselves are very difficult to prove."

Ravi, now 19, faces up to 10 years in state prison if he is convicted on the multiple counts of invasion of privacy, witness tampering, hindering prosecution and bias intimidation.

He rejected a plea deal in December that would have allowed him to serve no jail time, but require him to perform 600 hours of community service and receive counseling. The state also assured Ravi, an Indian citizen, they would recommend to immigration officials that he not be deported.

"The fact that the prosecution offered this plea deal in the first place indicates that they are worried that they might have a tough time in court," said John Fahy, another former New Jersey prosecutor familiar with the case.

His lawyer said there was a client rejected the plea deal in December,,

"Simple answer, simple principal. He's innocent. He's not guilty," defense attorney Steven Altman said. "That's why he rejected the plea."

The Middlesex County Prosecutor's Office has declined to comment on any aspect of the case.

Only the bias charges -- alleging Ravi's acts were intended to intimidate Clementi because of his sexual preference -- carry a presumption of incarceration. And therein lies the heart of both the legal case and the cloud of extrajudicial scrutiny that surrounds it. The jury will be asked to go inside Ravi's mind and determine his motives.

In the final analysis, Fahy says, the trial boils down to a jury having to determine whether Ravi is "a malicious homophobe," as prosecutors contend, or merely "a dopey prankster," as his lawyer will likely portray him.

These critical bias counts may be the most difficult to prove, as court papers and expected witness testimony describe an increasingly complicated relationship between the two unlikely roommates.

In the late summer of 2010, Ravi received the name of his freshman roommate from Rutgers University. After his initial online search, Ravi told a friend on iChat, "He's the literal opposite of me."

Ravi is the oldest son of well-educated parents who immigrated to New Jersey from India when Ravi was a toddler. During high school, Ravi joined the ultimate frisbee team and frequently tinkered with the latest trends in technology, following in the footsteps of his father, who owns an information-technology company. Ravi is viewed by those who know him as incessantly social and boisterous.

Clementi, on the other hand, was a talented violinist, painfully quiet and extremely shy, according to court papers. He often wished he had more friends. While Ravi drove a BMW in high school, Clementi did not own a car. He grew up in a "very conservative, very religious family," according to his older brother James. Clementi's mother worked as a nurse and his father served as the director of public works in Hawthorne, N.J.

Clementi's other interests, which he mentioned in various online forums, include unicycling, computing, and photography.

Ravi and Clementi each formed simplistic impressions of the other online before they ever met in person.

Clementi had come out to his parents just three days before leaving for college in the fall of 2010. But he had long been active on gay online websites, including a pornographic site called Justforboys, where Ravi discovered a post from Clementi.

"Found out my roommate is gay," Ravi tweeted.

Clementi wrote his own friend on gChat, "I've started stalking my roommate..," and "I got an azn (Asian)."

He then forwarded a link to Ravi's Twitter account. Later, after meeting Ravi's Indian parents for the first time, Clementi messaged a friend "sooo Indian first gen americanish" and "defs owna dunkin" (Dunkin' Donuts).

Unlike Ravi, who spent much time outside of their room socializing, Clementi admits in his chats that he was a private person "wanting to be alone," and worried about being overheard playing his violin by his fellow freshman in the dorm: "It feels so awk to practice in the room ... like everyone in the whole building can hear me hehe."

He tells another friend, "I would die if I was forced to always have people around me."

Clementi had recently opened up about his sexuality to both his family and classmates. He tells his online contact Sam Cruz: "I'm out to a whole bunch a people."

In July 2010, he came out to his older brother James and had told his parents just before leaving for college. Although his father accepted the news, Clementi perceived his mother's reaction very differently: "It's a good thing dad is ok w/it or I would be in serious trouble / mom has basically completely rejected me."

Other documents found on Clementi's computer indicate that Clementi also may have suffered from depression during this same period. Files entitled "Gah.docx," "sorry.docx," and "Why is everything so painful.docx," are dated from July through early September. But the judge will not permit any of these documents in court, since Ravi is not charged with Clementi's death.

Ravi's own ambivalent, and at times accepting, reaction to Clementi's sexual orientation further complicates the prosecution's case.

"There are numerous indications that the defendant wasn't homophobic," Fahy said.

In various Internet chats, he told friends that "idc" (an abbreviation for "I don't care") and "Im not really angry or sad idc." When his friend Tam replied, "What if he wants you, won't that get awk," Ravi replied, "Why would it be awk."

In another message he wrote, "F**K MY LIFE / He's gay," but qualified himself moments later, "I'm just like LOL / Maybe I'm still a little buzzed."

Ravi also sent Clementi a substantial text message, apologizing for his webcam intrustion, on the night of his death: "I've known you were gay and I have no problem with it. In fact one of my closest friends is gay and he and I have a very open relationship. I just suspected you were shy about it which is why I never broached the topic. I don't want your freshman year to be ruined because of a petty misunderstanding, it's adding to my guilt. You have a right to move if you wish but I don't want you to feel pressured to without fully understanding the situation."

Tension had risen between the roommates after Clementi brought a 25-year-old man who lived off campus into their shared dorm room. The two had connected via a hook-up site Adam4adam.

On Sept. 19, Clementi sent a text message to Ravi asking if he could use the room for the evening. Ravi agreed, but expressed skepticism to Molly Wei, a freshman living in the same dorm whom he'd known since grade school, about why his roommate needed the room. In her statement to police, Wei says Ravi worried that the man, only identified as M.B., might steal his iPad and seemed "really shady."

Wei, who was initially charged along with Ravi, has since agreed to cooperate with the state, testify against Ravi and avoid jail. Wei also promised to join an intervention program that requires her to perform 300 hours of community service over the next three years and undergo counseling for cyberbullying.

That night, Ravi used Wei's computer to access a webcam from his laptop that he had left in his own room.

At 9:13 p.m., Ravi activated a live unrecorded video image of his room while Wei sat nearby. Both saw Clementi and M.B. touching and kissing for a few seconds. Wei says in her statement: "I couldn't see any faces, and they were just what seemed to be kissing, and then, after literally two seconds, we just turned it off. And we were kind of both kind of in shock."

Four minutes later, Ravi tweeted, "Roommate asked for the room till midnight. I went into molly's room and turned on my webcam. I saw him making out with a dude. Yay."

Although Clementi may not have noticed the webcam that night, he did see Ravi's Twitter post the next day. Yet his chats with friend Hannah Yang indicate that he was largely dismissive of the incident:

Yang: I would feel seriously violated
Clementi: like wtf [what] did he think was gonna happen….
Oh yah I gotcha
When I first read the tweet
I defs felt violated
But then
When I rememberd what actually happened
Idk [I don't know]
Doesn't seem soooo bad lol

Yang: You guys really need to talk…
Clementi: hahaha
I guess
But its not like he left the cam on or recorded or anything
He just like took a five sec peep lol

He also sought feedback from the online community at Justusboys.

"I feel like the only thing the school might do is find me another roommate, probably with me moving out .. and I'd probably just end up with somebody worse than him ... I mean aside from being an a**hole from time to time, he's a pretty decent roommate," Clementi wrote in his post.

Clementi's mixed reaction to the incident and Ravi presents a critical obstacle for the prosecution.

"The fact that Clementi knew about the webcam incident and didn't seem to really care in his messages could make it hard to establish that he was intimidated," Fahy said.

After deliberating for more than a day and receiving additional encouragement from Yang, Clementi reported Ravi to their resident advisor and filled out the online request for a room change, citing how his roommate had spied on him with a webcam. Instead of leaving the room that day after his advisor offered him another place to sleep, however, Clementi arranged for another rendezvous in the dorm with M.B.

On Sept. 21, he sent Ravi a text: "Could I have the room again like 9:30 till midnight?" and received the reply, "Yeah no problem." Ravi then tweeted twice about the rendezvous occurring in his room and texted a friend at Cornell, "people are having a viewing party."

Because Clementi was keeping tabs on Ravi's tweets, he intervened by unplugging the power strip for Ravi's computer and webcam, making any viewing impossible. Ravi would later claim in a statement that he had already dismantled the webcam.

The next morning, Clementi talked to his mother on the phone without mentioning anything unusual, and later attended his orchestra rehearsal, according to an article in People magazine.

That afternoon, Ravi and Clementi saw one another in their dorm room, but there is no indication that they exchanged words. Ravi does recall in his statement seeing Clementi "doing something by his desk," but police have not released the handwritten note found in the room.

Ravi left the room to meet with a friend, and returned to find that Clementi had gone. At 8:42 p.m., Clementi posted his last status update on Facebook, "Jumping off the gw bridge sorry."

While Clementi's suicide has been deemed legally irrelevant to Ravi's trial, it nevertheless served as the catalyst for the subsequent investigation and prosecution.

"It is only because of its association with the suicide, that this made it to court," Fahy said. "It shouldn't have happened."

From a pool of more than 200 potential jurors, the prosecution and defense have begun to select the 12 who will eventually decide this question.

Defense attorney Steve Altman has hired a jury selection expert to help trim the list and a detailed questionnaire was sent to all potential jury members Friday. Several questions address whether the jurors have dealt personally with roommate issues, hold any biases against gays or people of Indian descent, and whether the jurors themselves have "ever had a prank or practical joke played on you."

There are nearly 150 people listed as potential witnesses, including more than 100 for the prosecution. First and foremost is Molly Wei.

Wei had known Ravi since grade school and reconnected with him when she saw his name in the hallway of her freshman dorm. During high school, she played volleyball and sang in the choir before enrolling in the six-year pharmacy program at Rutgers. Her testimony will likely address Ravi's motivation for spying on Clementi on the night on Sept. 19.

The other highly anticipated witness is the man identified only as M.B, a 25-year-old man whom Clementi met on an online hook-up site. According to one of Clementi's online exchanges, M.B. was not openly gay and worked two jobs at the time. He lived off campus and was initially hesitant about the rendezvous in the freshman dormitory. But because of the expense and inconvenience of a hotel room rendezvous, they agreed to meet in Clementi's room.

Middlesex County Superior Court Judge Glenn Berman has allowed the proceedings to be televised, but he has ordered the cameras to be removed from the courtroom when M.B. takes the stand, in order to protect his identity. And though M.B.'s full name appears on a questionnaire presented to prospective jurors, he as ordered them not to disclose that name to anyone.

Ravi not only faces significant jail time, but also deportation if he is found guilty after what is expected to be a four-week trial. His younger brother Jay is the family's only U.S. citizen, which has added an international dimension to the case that the New Delhi Television network has already begun to cover extensively.

"This story has all the levels necessary to cause a media storm -- young college students from a big university, bias intimidation, … pressure from advocacy groups, and family members saying he was just an innocent foolish kid," Honecker said.

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  • Thinking Clearly  •  West Chicago, Illinois  •  2 months ago
    outside of this story, why do people post everything in their lives on facebook and twitter?
    • music man 2 months ago
      because we live in a self absorbed celebrity worship society... its suks
    • Tony 2 months ago
      Because some idiots need to let everybody know they are out there doing stupid things...if they dont tell everybody they feel invisible
    • Horrible 2 months ago
      perfect vehicle for shameless self promotion... makes them feel important... laughable.
  • Mike  •  Southfield, Michigan  •  3 months ago
    If this article is any indication this trial is going to be a very expensive mess
    • Scanty Menses 2 months ago
      Suicide usually is messy
    • caliguy 2 months ago
      indeed. Plus cyber-bullying? is that what we call it today? this is nothing else but another gay discrimination case but in order to make it sensational we call it something else. We are being manipulated by the media, the lawyers and the politicians and the majority is falling for it everyday.
    • Dibbs 2 months ago
      If this article is any indication, there shouldn't even be a trial.
  • NightWolf  •  Bozeman, Montana  •  3 months ago
    This trial may have implications FAR beyond what any of us maybe thinking or percieving @ this moment...
    • Robert 3 months ago
      did you fall off the chair in mid-sentence?
    • Mark! 3 months ago
      hey "Robert" why the unwarranted attack?
    • Mozart 2 months ago
      And the boy was endowed with powers far beyond those of mortal men. Superman, gotta love it.
  • There must be something i ...  •  2 months ago
    I don't think this Ravi kid was a homophobe, just very, very stupid. He rejected a plea deal that would allow him to basically walk away. But I don't understand why Clementi committed suicide if he came out to his family and friends already. At first I thought it might be because he was very embarrassed, but reading the article it seems as though Clementi did not find the webcam invasion to be a big deal. Maybe he committed suicide for another reason entirely.
    • FR 2 months ago
      In which case Ravi should walk.
    • Order of L 2 months ago
      you don't understand? how dare you try to put yourself in his place. you clearly can't comprehend the stigma that's associated with homosexuality in America. perhaps all those cases of preteens killing themselves for their sexuality were ALSO mere coincidences. the Christian sector of America spits venom at homosexuality, even in the political realm. if homosexuals fear coming out to the public then SURELY they would not enjoy having their sexual encounters recorder secretely for the amusement of others. get your fucking head checked.
    • There must be something i ... 2 months ago
      Agreed. I'm thinking Clementi committed suicide perhaps due to his mother's rejection of him. I feel he didn't really care enough about Ravi to waste his life over him.
  • 18-1  •  2 months ago
    BTW-if I had to venture a guess, I would say the suicide had something to do with the phone call he had with his mom.
    • MisterD 2 months ago
      I hope the defense lawyers use this in their defense.
    • Bliss Resurrects 2012XMAS 2 months ago
      GOD 2012
      Stop forming useless opinions on unimportant events that does not directly concern your life
    • Mr. Spin 2 months ago
      How about you stop telling people that you don't know what to do
  • platinumforce  •  2 months ago
    Whatever your stand is on the issues involved in this story, it is a SAD one!
  • Christopher M  •  2 months ago
    If everyone who was bullied at school killed themselves, half the country would be dead, and the other half would be in jail for bullying.

    Tyler likely got bullied by people much worse than Ravi for years. Don't prosecute Ravi and essentially blame him for the suicide.

    I got bullied for being from the poor section of town and having hand-me-down clothes. I got over it. My life is much better than theirs 20 years later. I kicked a few of their butts but I wish I did it much earlier, as I was afraid of the stupid zero tolerance rules, where I would get in as much trouble as them.
  • Mandi  •  Bismarck, North Dakota  •  2 months ago
    So let me get this straight. The conversations with said roomate seemed not too bad, we can see that his mother rejected him...then he talks to his mother the one who rejects him a few hours before he jumped? Umm NO offense but He did not jump because of his roomate....Try more like HIS mother did not accept him anymore and i'm sure that's the reason. Sheesh.
  • joejoe44  •  Amelia, Ohio  •  2 months ago
    Where exactly was the "Bullying" and "Intimidation" I must have missed that paragraph.
  • jeanelane  •  3 months ago
    Just remember - the media is only going to report what they want you to know. The media is the one with bias. Never an unbiased story coming out anywhere. What they wrote here may be the truth, but I am sure it is not the whole truth.
  • mlb1954nygiants  •  Hicksville, New York  •  2 months ago
    jerkoffs are always taking secret pictures of each other.
  • Zaa  •  2 months ago
    If Clementi were kissing an 'unattractive' girl, not another man, and all this played out, would Ravi still be in this much trouble?
  • eerbeek  •  3 months ago
    Looks like for the most part they got along and had decent exchanges between themselves.

    It doesn't look like there was any truly overt 'bias intimidation' going on.

    While it's tragic that the young man took his own life without any real explanation (maybe mom's complete rejection when he came out has much more to do with this than is examined in the article), it was ultimately his own decision and act that no one else is responsible for.

    It's not like college campuses don't have a zillion "support groups" and counseling opportunities available to students. He was literally in the midst of all kinds of help for an emotional conflict of any kind. My uncle got his PhD in Psych at rutgers. There were educated folks around if he wanted to seek them out (if even professors in the psych dept.)

    It also sounds like 5-second prank among college kids doesn't warrant this kind of attention or the charges levied. If the young man had not committed suicide, we wouldn't even be hearing about it.

    All that said, this can only be considered a cursory opinion. I don't have ALL the facts and much will be discovered in court, I'm sure.
  • L  •  Alexandria, Virginia  •  3 months ago
    sounds like Clementi had enough issues on his own, which is unfortunate. that being said, you can't blame one individual for another person's suicide...
  • Yogagirl  •  Kansas City, Missouri  •  2 months ago
    It is a slippery slope when we blame others for your own behavior
  • Dude  •  2 months ago
    Whether you are gay or normal, no one should be recording your intimacy without your permission.
  • Sinwist  •  Baltimore, Maryland  •  2 months ago
    They won't be able to prosecute this guy, and it will be a waste of taxpayer money in an attempt to appease the gay community. This is a sad situation, but it is made all the more sad by people with axes to grind and agendas to push.
  • Elyse  •  Middletown, New York  •  2 months ago
    This is a very tragic and cautionary tale of what can happen when people do not use technology in a good way. However one feels about the parties on either side, the law was broken. A right to privacy belongs to every citizen. Period. The fact that this was undermined by a young student that didn't understand the implications of this and thought it funny to use his webcam in said invasion, only proves that much more needs to be done to explain/teach our younger generation that its not "ok" to just click and send whatever you wish on the internet no matter the content or the consequences.
  • Daniel C  •  3 months ago
    So let me get this straight: the prosecutors basically have to prove that he was a bigot in order to prove the bias/intimidation charges? This kid sounds like the least bigotted kid in America. He's a straight 18-year-old who finds out that his new roommate is gay, and it makes him feel ... awkward? Fair enough. Then they basically get along, he watches his roommate kiss a guy on a webcam for five seconds before he feels guilty and turns it off. Then he apologizes. Where's the intimidation? Where's the gay-bashing? I wish the guys who bullied me as a child had been like him.
  • Patrick  •  Austin, Texas  •  2 months ago
    I dont think he deserves 10 years, and he definetely didnt cause that guy to jump (who obviously had some other issues).But seriously, how lame and pathetic do you have to be to spy on someone like that.